BOBBY BANHART ON MTV'S TILA TEQUILA

Bobby Banhart

Once again Chaunce Hayden has a great interview with actor Bobby Banhart coming out in Steppin Out Magazine.

THE INTERVIEW

Hayden: Did you know who Tila was before signing on to do the show?


Bobby Banhart: I didn't even know what the show was about. We were told it was something different from what it was because it was a big secret. I had no clue what I was signing up for. I didn't even know who Tila Tequila was! I never intended on falling in love with anyone. It just happened. It took me by surprise. I swear I never heard of Tila Tequila. I didn't know one thing about her. She was just another girl. After the show was over I finally was able to look her up on Google and after I read some of the things about her, it wasn't where I was interested in taking my career. Coming from upper New York State I never was really around Asian women or lesbians. So it was nice to be in an environment with bisexual girls and lesbians. But I was very disappointed in the whole situation.

Hayden: Did you love Tila?

Bobby Banhart: I grew to love her. Every day I hung out with her I liked her more. After a while I really did fall in love with her. I thought she was incredible. On and off the camera she was just incredible. Even after everything she's said about me I'm still very heartbroken. I don't think she ever loved me back. It's horrible to go though. I've been cheated on in the past and this is just one more thing that didn't go well for me.

Hayden: What happened after the show was over? Did Tila contact you?


Bobby Banhart: We only spoke three times in four months after the show. Every time I started to fall out of love with her she would call me on the phone and all my feelings would come back. But after the reunion show she only called me one time and that's when we broke up. The last time I called her Jared Leto was with her. I think she's dating him now.


Hayden: Who broke up with who?


Bobby Banhart: She said to me on the phone how busy her schedule is and then proceeded to tell me how busy my schedule is. But how did she even know my schedule since we haven't even talked? So I knew where it was going. It is what it is. I'm not dumb. So I wished her good luck and that was it. We were done.


Hayden: Do you think Tila ever really wanted to find love or was she just looking for some TV time?

Bobby Banhart: It sucks because when you put yourself out there it hurts to be rejected. I wouldn't do that to anyone. I wouldn't want anyone to feel like an ass. I went through so much stuff for nothing. But I believe in karma. Everything comes back to you. I heard about her interview on "Extra" where she said I couldn't handle the cameras. That's funny because I've been acting for a long time. I've been in a few films already. So I don't know what she's talking about. Plus, we didn't film the show with paper towels. So why she would say that is beyond me. Then she said, "Who would want to leave these boobs." To me relationships aren't about boobs. It's not about how good you look. It's about how someone makes you feel. If she's bitter toward me I'm sorry. But the breakup was all her decision. Not mine. It's hard to believe that someone would lie to you just to get a kick out of you at your expense or to make money. But I guess I was fooled. Only Tila can answer that.


Hayden: Would you do it again?

Bobby Banhart: If I did it would be for real. If it was a dating show I would actually fall in love with the person that I picked. We would be together and that would be the end of the story. There would be no jokes or questions if it's fake or not. Everyone would know it's for real. Not some stupid fame thing to be on TV. Love isn't about fame or money. It's about being in love. By the way, so far I've gotten over 50,000 offers to marry girls on Myspace! But if I can't find love in the real world or on television I must be doing something wrong. Besides, finding girls just to have sex has never been a problem for me. I grew up in a college town. You can only spread your seed so much!

Comments

Anonymous said…
Bobby you were the only reason I watched A Shot At Love from beginning to the end. I believe you genuinely loved Tila the whole time.

Tila has no heart in hurting you just for fame. She will never find real love with Jared or anybody else because she herself is fake. You are way too good for her.

I believe things happen for a reason and you are meant for something bigger and better. I love you Bobby and I am certain you will be successful in the near future. Tila will regret letting you go.
Anonymous said…
Hey Bobby you can spread your seed over here anytime honey LOL!!!

You are sooooo freakkkinn hottt - you'll bounce back in no time.

As for Tila it's her lost for letting a hottie like you go!!!
Anonymous said…
Bobby is a LIAR , he broke up with Tila
because he was too jealous at Jared Leto
and he's also jealous at Mitch Allan , too .
He thought that they are Tila's boyfriends .

He's jealous of any guy around Tila .

Bobby's also very controlling , he wants Tila to quit her career and give up all of her jobs

In an interview with Reality Blurred , Bobby told them that :

.. " His liver is not doing well after 2 months being with Tila because he's too jealous "

Bobby Banhart wasn't in any film or acting before he came to Tila's show

He worked at a pizza shop and he washed the dishes at Deloia's restaurant

The last time he talked on the phone with Tila and he ended up the conversation with her by saying :

.. " Good luck in all that you do " ... and hung up the phone

HE BROKE IT UP WITH TILA BECAUSE HE'S TOO JEALOUS ! ..

THAT'S IT !

Tila did not break up with him
Anonymous said…
In response to above comment:

Most struggling actors do odd jobs like servers, dishwashers, and even working in pizza shops to pay the bills. I can’t comment on the supposed jealousy and controlling issues because I don’t know the guy personally. Do you? What I do know, is when Tila announced the break up it was stiff and very unemotional and later her big announcement was she was going to star in “A Shot of Love 2.” Anyone can tell you if you had feelings for someone and they just recently broke it off with you, your emotions are going to show even on national TV. However, the biggest reason I believe Tila is it on fame and not for finding love is the timing of the “Shot of Love 2” announcement. Logistically, it just seems impossible to draw up and sign a contract to do a new show to find love after only a couple of days of a break up. In fact, it’s hard to believe anyone would want to do another show about finding love if they truly had feelings for the other person and it didn’t work out, especially, only after couple of days.
James Edstrom said…
Ok Tila, Calm down !
Anonymous said…
hey times aquare gossip , I think you are talking to me .. huh ? ..

... but I am not Tila and I don't even know her .

I went to her myspace and read her blogs every day and I became her fan

I believe Tila's story and I don't believe that guy bobby , his face looks so suspicious and ugly
Anonymous said…
I do believe his love for her is genuine and I believe the show is REAL

but .. things do happened for a reason ... may be they misunderstood each other
Anonymous said…
I don't think Tila ever has time to read all these scraps ,

she's too busy traveling around the world and making money
Anonymous said…
I enjoyed watching a shot at love.I believe bobby really loved tila.
I also think tila fell in love with bobby.
I love tila and bobby together.I hope they get back together.
What are the chances tila and bobby will get back together?
Tila please answer.
Anonymous said…
Here is what I think.
Nobody is perfect.Maybe bobby is a jealous person.I dont know.A lot of people are.

The solution:Tila needs to redeem her self with bobby.I think she should call him and apologise.There is a lot of unresolved issues between them.She initiated the breakup.I also believe in Karma.What goes around comes around.

Also I think tila should know that bobby will soon be staring in an independent Movie called Within the Heart,written and directed by Gina Luciano so he is doing well so far.
Anonymous said…
I am a relatively famous actress.I was in a somewhat similar situation as Tila.When I started of in my career, I met this guy,we did fall in love But I wanted to pursue my dreams of being an actress.I wanted to be famous.Fame is very addicting you know.We did breakup.
I never experienced that kind of love again.I did not know who loved me for real or because I was famous.Luckily for me,we did get back together and are married.We have been together for 10 year.

My advise to tila is bobby really fell in love with you without knowing anything about you.This is true love.I am sure you must have felt something for him or you would not have picked him.I think you should give him another chance.

Find a way to get back together.There is always a way.Fame without real love is very lonely.You both seem like nice people.
James Edstrom said…
I glad your career as a actress went ok. Since being a celebrity photographer, it has always been that my career came first. And when I did meet a nice person, they just couldn't get it all. Out at night, networking, deadlines for magazines, celebrity parties. Too much partying...lol....I couldn't find anyone that understood me and this business when I was young and cute, and I'm sure I wont at this age. Glad you got back together. I made the wrong decisions and choose the career..

James
Anonymous said…
MTV should give Tila Tequila and Bobby Banhart a reality show
together where they resolve their differences.

These two have been fighting like an old married couple.

They probably misunderstood each other.Tila thinks he broke up with her because he was too jealous.Bobby says she wanted the breakup by telling him how busy she was.

Either way,I felt Tila should have stayed with Bobby longer,find about about this guy who fought very hard for you.He waited for her even when they spoke for only three times in four months,just to find out there was nothing at the end.

I hope Tila does the right thing for once.This guy is for keeps.
Anonymous said…
Ok to the Anonymous who wrote this:
"Bobby is a LIAR , he broke up with Tila
because he was too jealous at Jared Leto
and he's also jealous at Mitch Allan , too .
He thought that they are Tila's boyfriends"

Well wtf is Tila F^ucking Tequila doing hanging out with Jared F^cking Leto and Mitch Allen (who the hell is he anyway) when she doesnt even have enough time to spend with her own BF? Who wouldnt feel like shit after that one? So she could make time in her schedule for Jared Leto (who is known to treat his woman like shit anyway) and ? mitch allen but not for Bobby?
And if youre so stupid to know shes with these other guys and think that shes really looking for love on season two and not more fame and attention your really F^cking ignorant.
Tila's a f^cking Lier!
James Edstrom said…
wow....calm down...lol
Anonymous said…
this is my opinion on this:I think mtv played a big part on this breakup , Tila probably signed for 2 seasons intending not to be with the one she picks, but she fell in love that's why the sporadic call trying to distance herself, but can't. I watched the reunion on my dvr over and over again { addicted to this show } there was a time that bobby's face was not happy that after they took the shot, something was up I think he was already been told about the 2nd season and that they couldn't be together after the reunion. Bobby hang in there' I think Tila loves you ' I can see the way she looks at you and always trying to hold on to you. I don't think any of this misunderstanding is going to be resolved not until after they finished showing season 2. Good luck.
James Edstrom said…
No offence, but reality television really isnt reality. the producers tell you what to do and they have a script in their mind on what they want.

James
Anonymous said…
Bobby said in the interview :

... " the last time I called Tila , Jared Leto was with her . I think they are dating now "

.. obviously he was jealous and upset about that and then he told her

... " good luck in all that you do "

and hung up the phone on her ... he broke up with her because he thought that Jared Leto and Tila were dating

I think Bobby is an over jealous dick .

He was only talking with Tila on the phone , how could he know what Tila and Jared are doing ? How could he know that they are dating ?
Anonymous said…
between Booby and half a million dollars , which one will you choose ?
come on , people ... don't be a hypocrite
grab that money .. Tila baby !
lol
Anonymous said…
I found Bobby's occupation profile is listed as a student on IAMONMTV.com when he applied to be on Tila's show

Bobby Banhart wasn't in any film or acting before he came to Tila's show ... He worked at a pizza shop and he washed dishes at Deloia's restaurant ... He wasn't an actor

After he finished fliming A shot at love with Tila ... he called himself an actor " ?? !!!! ... a wannabe actor ? shiet !

After he was lucky to get a chance to win a shot at love with Tila and then he broke up with her

he used his new found fame he received from Tila's show to host a .. " I broke up with Tila's party " and went around telling the girls that he is an actor and he just finished shooting .." A Shot At Love With Tila ."

He also used Tila's name and photos to promote his party events to make money and to meet a lot of girls
Anonymous said…
Since middle school, Bobby has been a liar ... for real

He's fake, and he won't hesitate to hurt the people around him to get what he wants.

It's so funny to see him coming back around town, shaking people's hands and smiling in pics like he's a celeb

He actually had to ANNOUNCE he was going to the bar and even then hardly anybody came out to see him except for a few choice Worcester whores.

If we weren't interested in talking to him in HS, since he's a lying scumbag , why would we want to chill with him now ?

Oh yeah ... and ... he can' t spell
Anonymous said…
The point is ... Bobby LIED ... and he made Tila looks bad

Bobby is a LIAR ... on Dec 31 , he posted a message on his bulletin board and told his friend :

.. " After the reunion show , she never called me , and no one would gave me her number "

and now he told a different story .. In the interview , he said :

.. " After the show , she only called me one time and that's when we broke up . The last time I called her Jared Leto was with her . I think she's dating him now "

and then he told her : .. " good luck in all that you do " .. and hung up the phone

Obviously , he broke up with Tila because he was upset and jealous at Jared Leto and Tila thought that he broke up with her ...

Bobby is a LIAR !

Tila's telling the TRUTH !
Anonymous said…
More publicity for Bobby Banhart?

Bobby Banhart is Native American.Bobby is not caucasian.Bobby says,I have never been around asians,lesbians and African-Americans.You are so ignorant.

As a caucasian female,I have never been around Native-Americans,I have been around african-americans,Asians,Lesbians.

Bobby Banhart is all about fame and money.He was just on Extra.

Who ever heard of Bobby Banhart before a Shot at love with Tila Tequila?Talk of biting the hand that feeds you.

He said he came on the show to put fire to his acting career.Why should Tila Tequila take him seriously?

Bobby your 15 minutes of fame is almost up.

Also he has been making appearances at clubs making money off his fans.

Did I also mention that he had a break-up party where his fans had to pay $15 to see him.

This guy is all about money and fame.

He is rumored to be dating a girl named Rachel.He has been with this girl for years.He likes lots of women around him.

He has nothing to offer a girl.He thinks his Native-American looks are enough.He is an empty vessel.

Bobby is a bad actor,ignorant,Jealous and a controlling Native American man.
Anonymous said…
Could it be that both Bobby and Tila used "A Shot of Love" to get their names out their. Well it worked! We are still talking about them, both have new acting projects and personally I think they may still be friends.
Anonymous said…
Could it be that both Bobby and Tila used "A Shot of Love" to get their names out their. Well it worked! We are still talking about them, both have new acting projects and personally I think they may still be friends.
Anonymous said…
A college graduate that writes and spells like a 4th grade student.

I dont believe Bobby Banhart graduated from college.Why? Because he cant spell,his sentences are so poorly written.

He claims he graduated from State University Of Newyork at Oneonata.It is in upstate Newyork.Someone please check this out.He is a liar.

He also claims he is an actor.How can that be?His most recent profile on MTV says he is a film student.All of a sudden he is a college graduate and an actor.Something is not right.

If you are not sure of your spellings and grammer,dont post it on the internet Bobby.

Learn to use the spell checker for goodness sake.

Have your girlfriend Rachel look over your work.
Anonymous said…
I feel sorry for Tila , she picked the wrong guy

I wish she has luck finding true love on her next show
Anonymous said…
Nobody is perfect.Bobby is not perfect.He says he went on the show to put fire on his acting career.He is chasing fame.What makes him different from Tila?Nothing.

The relationship ended on a bad note.Bobby ended it by saying good luck in all you do because Jared Leto was there.Bobby sounded annoyed,jealous and not trusting of Tila.

Tila is not dating Jared Leto.How can she?Jared Leto is supposed to be dating Paris Hilton.I think he overreacted.This was a misunderstanding of some sort.

I also read where he said he believed all the things that were written about Tila on the internet.How cah he?You get to know people,hang out with them before you make judgements.

I read on the internet that bobby relies heavily on his parents for financial support.Do I believe that?No,because I dont know the guy.

Bobby and Tila need to make peace with each other so they can move on to happy healthy relationships.

I think the reason they are still fighting with each other is because there was no closure in the relationship.It ended more like a fight.

They were both on the show for fame and money.Love got in the way.By chosing love or fame it does not make you a bad person.Lots of actors chose fame.

This show was controlled by MTV.Tila didnot call the shots.

All these said.I hope they work out their differences and get back together.
Anonymous said…
Enough bashing of Tila and Bobby please.

Lets all hope they get back together.

I believe Bobby had and still has genuine feelings for Tila.

I also believe Tila fell in love with Bobby.She chose him over Dani.Somewhere inside her heart,I am sure she still loves him.
Anonymous said…
No way ... Tila better stay away from that Jerk
He's retarded and empty-minded .
He can't even spell properly
Anonymous said…
According to Bobby's ex-girlfriend , Brook :
He used to borrow money from her but never pay back
he isn’t even a film student, he was for about a semester only
because she wrote his acceptance paper for him so he could get in … then dropped out.
She has to fill out the form for him because he can’t spell
Anonymous said…
Bobby is a LIAR ... on Dec 31 , he posted a message on his bulletin board and told his friend :

.. " After the reunion show , she never called me , and no one would gave me her number "

and now he told a different story .. In the interview , he said :

.. " After the show , she only called me one time and that's when we broke up . The last time I called her Jared Leto was with her . I think she's dating him now "

it’s obvious .. Bobby was upset about that and he told her : .. ” good luck in all that you do ” … and he hung up the phone on her

Obviously , he broke up with Tila because he was upset and jealous at Jared Leto and Tila thought that he broke up with her ...

Bobby is a LIAR !

Tila's telling the TRUTH ! .... Tila is the victim here

Bobby broke up with Tila , Tila did not break up with him

.. He broke up with Tila because he was jealous at Jared Leto … he thought that Tila and Jared are dating

Bobby is an over jealous dick , He was only talking on the phone with Tila , how could he know Tila and Jared are dating and having a relationship ?

… I think Tila is better off without Bobby , that’s guy is a douche and a loser anyway

He has nothing to offer a girl . He is an empty vessel , a bad actor , ignorant , Jealous and a controlling man

I feel sorry for Tila , she picked the wrong guy
I wish she has luck finding true love on her next show
Anonymous said…
Bobby Banhart is a shameless LIAR .
His most recent profile on MTV says he is a film student ,
but according to his ex-girlfriend , Brooke , he isn’t even a film student , he was for about a semester ,
only because she wrote his acceptance paper for him so he could get in … then dropped out .
She had to fill out the form for him because he can’t spell properly .
Evidently , he never went to college . But , in the interview with steppin out magazine ,
He claims he graduated from State University Of NewYork at Oneonata . It is in upstate Newyork .
I dont believe Bobby Banhart graduated from college .
Why ? Because he can't spell , his sentences are so poorly written
A college graduate that writes and spells like a 4th grade student
He also claims he is an actor . How can that be ?
His most recent profile on MTV says he is a film student .
All of a sudden he is a college graduate and an actor !!!
Who ever heard of Bobby Banhart before a Shot at love with Tila Tequila ?
In the interview , He said he came on the show to put fire to his acting career .
So ... Why should Tila Tequila take him seriously ?
Also he has been making appearances at clubs making money off his fans.
Did I also mention that he had a break-up party where his fans had to pay $15 to see him.
This guy is all about money and fame . He's a Liar and he's fake ,
and he won't hesitate to hurt the people around him to get what he wants
He is chasing fame . What makes him different from Tila ? Nothing !
Anonymous said…
They're going to bring Bobby on season 2, and he will proposed to Tila and they will live happily ever after .The End. Just dreaming he he he.
Anonymous said…
They're going to bring Bobby on season 2, and he will proposed to Tila and they will live happily ever after .The End. Just dreaming he he he.
Anonymous said…
no ... bobby is dumb and retarded
Anonymous said…
The relationship would have lasted longer if Bobby had proposed.

In I love Newyork,he proposed and they moved in together.

The reality show My Fair Brady,they are married and still together.
Anonymous said…
I agree with you.

People tend to work harder at a relationship if they are engaged or married.
Anonymous said…
you guys are so retarded.
let them be.
it doesnt matter who and what
they did.
its overr. so stop with the gossip.
Anonymous said…
You are the retarded one.Yes,Its over but this is a free country.

If we feel like blogging about our favorite show,we should be able to without any retard telling us what to do.

You did not have to leave a stupid message.
Anonymous said…
the truth is ...

Jared told Tila to pick Bobby ,

Tila told Jared that she loves Bobby and she picked him ..

and ... Bobby blew it off
Anonymous said…
Tila has started shooting a Shot at love 2.

I also hear Bobby is getting his own show.Bobby announced his own show is already in the works.

I guess it turned out well for everbody.

Hopefully they can be friends someday.
Anonymous said…
For Bobbys announcement that he is working on his own show,check out online at-

Bobby and Vanessa of MTV`S Shot at love with Tila Tequila.

I cant believe he never got Tilas number.

Tila if you ever read this,please give or send bobby your number.

How are you going to work on a friendship if he does not have your number.....hahaha.
Anonymous said…
Screw bobby. he's a dumb douche anyways. he seems like one of those controlling jealous types...

Tila should have picked Dani!
Anonymous said…
Bobbys issues with trust,jealousy and control comes from the fact that he has been cheated on several times(more than 3x) in the past.He does not have a good track record with women.He said so in the Stepping out interview and even on his profile on MTV.
He probably projected that on to Tila but Tila is not one of those girls.

My point is everyone has baggages or issues we carry around.We come into relationships each bringing in our own baggages.
We only hope our patner loves us enough to accept those issues and help us work through it.Love is give and take.

Also the world of Reality TV dating is tough.Tila and Bobby did not see each other for 4 months.They only spoke 3x in 4 months.That is enough to break up any relationship.You have to really want it to countinue.Even after the reunion show,I never understood why Bobby didnot get Tila`s number from her.
Anonymous said…
Bobby I think you are full of it. I think that you tried to portray yourself as something you weren't from the very first moment you had your 15 min of fame. What movies have you been in? Name one. I sure as heck haven't seen 1, let alone has anyone even heard of you before this show. Don't even say that you weren't in love with Tila now because you blew smoke the whole time talking about how you WERE in love with her. Just because it didn't end up the way you wanted now you want to talk a bunch of BS about how it all went down. And as far as the marriage proposals on myspace I wouldnt be surprised if more than 80% of those so called women are desperate 50-60 year old MEN who are claiming to be 20 year old hotties just to get a chance to talk to you! Dont kid yourself, you weren't famous before the show and you're sure as shit not famous now. Be true to yourself... stop wasting so much of your time trying to explain what everyone wants to hear happened... we all know what really went down and its only because of what YOU SAID on national television... OH WAIT THATS RIGHT, You're an actor. Must've had us all fooled.
Anonymous said…
well bobbby is working on a new show, and he's going to emcee mtv's spring break, so who do you think is behind all these development?of course it's Tila she is Mtv's new sweetheart since the success of her show so she can pretty much ask mtv what she wants. I believe these two are still together that's why they couldn't get their story straight.
Anonymous said…
to the Anonymous above

Your defense for Bobby is weak and dumb

you sound like him
Anonymous said…
Umm, a ratty feral Chink?

Dude you can do 50 times better than her. She looked like a crack whore, and shes Asian.
Anonymous said…
Hey umm,ratty feral chink? You are the one on crack and a whore.

You are foolish,dumb,retarded,ignorant and an ugly idiot.

I would like to see what you look like.You racist dummy and drug dealer.

Bobby is Native American.He hates racists like you.

Please dont come back here.
Anonymous said…
Hey umm,ratty feral chink? You are the one on crack and a whore.

You are foolish,dumb,retarded,ignorant and an ugly idiot.

I would like to see what you look like.You racist dummy and drug dealer.

Bobby is Native American.He hates racists like you.

Please dont come back here.
Anonymous said…
Tila is shooting a Shot at Love 2.

In March she hosts MTV spring break in Miami.

She is also hosting 2 other new shows for MTV Pretty Smart(game show)and King and Queen all to begin in March.

Bobby is hosting MTV spring break in Cancun.

Goodluck to both of them.
Anonymous said…
I really don't understand what all those people saw in Tila? I mean she isn't beautiful. She only has a good body.. but her face? I think it's really ugly. And I think it is a very stupid desicion to do such a progam if your very busy with your career. I hated Tila from day 1. She really thought that she was everything with that room in her house.. And what was really stupid was that she let them eat en drink those penis:S Hello.. Their could be have some bacterie in that hart en blood. Tila I hate you till death ugly sl**.
Anonymous said…
I disagree with you roxanne.I hate your comments about Tila.Do you know Tila Personally?Have you ever seen her in person or just on TV?
Well I have, and I can tell you
Tila is beautiful,has a hot
body,beautiful personality,funny.The list goes on.


You see,one mans meat is another mans poison.Tila is absolutely beautiful.

For you to mention she gave them bulls penis to eat,you are giving her too much credit.She is just there to do a show.There are producers and directors in charge of this show.If you want to blame somebody,blame MTV,a shot at love producers and directors.

HEY ROXANNE,I HATE YOU TILL DEATH UGLY SL**.YOU HAVE AN UGLY FACE AND YOUR BODY IS DISTORTED AND FAT.YOU CANT SPELL EITHER.
Anonymous said…
Hey Roxanne,I dont even know you but I HATE YOU ALREADY.

I dont know what anyone sees in you Roxanne.

From your comments you sound like an idiot,alcoholic and an ugly person.

Roxanne,I hate you till death ugly sl**.
Anonymous said…
Its intresting we are commenting on looks.

Bobby is more like a pretty boy.He does not really do it for me.I prefer Ryans looks.

Ryan(from a Shot at Love 1)has a more dependable look.A more solid look.

Tila and Ryan were my favorite from the show.Tila has the whole package.She is beautiful.

Again who are we to say what is pretty or beautiful.What is pretty or beautiful to me may not be to you.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Also like Bobby mentioned,it is not how good you look but how you make people feel.
Anonymous said…
I agreed with the Anonymous comments above ,

that Roxanne guy/woman is so stupid and Ignorant

MTV producers and directors made the contestants eat the bull penis and testicles , Tila had nothing to do with it

That Roxanne guy/woman could be a bitter loser who got eliminated from the show , that's why she/he 's still mad at Tila
Anonymous said…
come on people , the show is over
Bobby is a dumb Douche , anyway
He's a woman trapped in a man's body
Bobby is a Pussy !
Anonymous said…
I don't know what do you people see in Bobby

Bobby is just an average looking guy , he is not good looking enough to be a serious actor ,

... plus he's very ignorant and empty-head

He just got lucky Tila picked him , that's all !

I still can not believe Tila picked Bobby , I think that is the worst thing she could have ever done

Bobby is only a mama’s boy with nothing going on in his life ... Tila will have to spend most of her time taking care of him like a baby .

He is so immature & insecured . He's nothing but a small town guy wanna be an actor
Anonymous said…
Bobby you are a champ mate, i watched the show in australia and im glad u won but it suz that it ended th way it did. She is a loser so dont worry about it mate who is tila tequila anyway. who cares all that matters is that u are a nice fella and she is a hoe and she will never be happy cause she is so shallow. anyways have a good one.
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above from Australia that says Bobby you are a champ mate,you are so dumb,stupid,retarded, shallow and a whore.

How do you know Bobbie is a nice fella stupid ape?You are really a shallow fool and you will never be happy.

Do you know Bobbie personally?

Is this how you asses people that are nice by watching an actor shooting a Shot at Love?

Bobby is an actor you retarded fool.He fooled you too.

Your life must be so boring to believe everything you watch.Go back to school and learn to spell.

Who are you anyway?YOU LOSER.
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above from Australia that says Bobby you are a champ mate,you are so dumb,stupid,retarded, shallow and a whore.

How do you know Bobbie is a nice fella stupid ape?You are really a shallow fool and you will never be happy.

Do you know Bobbie personally?

Is this how you asses people that are nice by watching an actor shooting a Shot at Love?

Bobby is an actor you retarded fool.He fooled you too.

Your life must be so boring to believe everything you watch.Go back to school and learn to spell.

Who are you anyway?YOU LOSER.
Anonymous said…
A Shot at Love 1 is probably going to turn out to be the best of the series because most of the contestants like Bobby didnot know who Tila was before shooting the show. Their feelings were more genuine and real.

A Shot at Love 2 contestants know who Tila is,have certain expectations of her and know what they want from the show.
Anonymous said…
I watched Bobby and Tila fall in love and it felt real.

Bobby won the Shot at Love with Tila.It should have stayed that way.There should never have been a Shot at Love 2.I dont care even if Tila was forced in doing a Shot at Love 2.

It is also about being honest with someone.If Tila knew a Shot at Love 2 was coming,why did you lead Bobby on?

You knew you were going to let Bobby go from the start,why mislead him?

I know it is not totally your fault but it makes you responsible.

He fell in love with you Tila.He wanted to be with you.He did all that for you.He would not have done all those things if he did not want to be with you.

Ultimately,it is about Karma.What goes around comes around.Tila you knew the deal and you purposely mislead Bobby.

The show is done and over but Karma still follows.You used him and treated him so poorly.

At some point after a Shot at Love 2 is over,you have to go back to Bobby and fulfill your obligations.It is not done Tila.

You know about sins of the father and how it affects generations.

You will never find another love like Bobby.He was real.Find him back Tila.

Before I go,you should know Flavor of Love 3 ratings went down by a million.No condition is permanent.

I will be watching a Shot at Love 2,but I am just being honest.You have to fix this Tila.

MAKE IT RIGHT.
Anonymous said…
Hey anonymous above,those are some deep comments.Glad to know you will be watching a Shot at love 2.

I am also looking forward to a Shot at Love 2.

Bobby had mentioned that he was working on his own show.Does any one know what it is about?

Is it a reality dating show?I know he had asked his fans to nominate him as bachelor of the month for an MTV dating show.I guess it worked.
Anonymous said…
For those of you who doesn't Bobby personally , just shut the F up

Bobby is a douche bag and he's FAKE !

He's two-faced and he cheated on Tila

That's the reason why she rejected him
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above,I disagree with your comments about Bobby.

You dont need to be a rocket scientist to know Bobby would never in a million years cheat on Tila.It is not his style.This guy is way too deep for this.

I think the best way for Tila to understand why people are so furious at her for the shabby treatment of Bobby is to put herself in Bobbys position.Think of your self as Bobby and try and feel what it is like to be treated like you dont matter.

The show is over Tila but you left a very dark cloud that is following you around until you take care of it.You know what you did wrong.

At some point when something new,fresh and younger comes along Tila,MTV will reject you.Believe me it will come.
Anonymous said…
Sorry for commenting about this here.
Last night I watched MTV`S That`s Amore starring Domenico Nesci.For those of you that dont know,That`s Amore is a spin off of a Shot at Love.


I have to tell you It was sooo boring.I fell asleep watching it.

Dont get me wrong,I like Domenico so I watched the show hoping to like it.

I have to tell you,a Shot at Love 1 is a 100x much better.
I really dont see high ratings for that show.Sorry Domenico.
Anonymous said…
I watched it , too , it's boring

All the bitches on Domenico's show ... they are so FAKE

They only want to be on T.V and wanna be famous

None of them really have feeling for Domenico , they're just using him
Anonymous said…
Hey Bobby,I am glad to hear you are doing so well.

Dont worry so much that Tila is shooting a Shot at Love 2.

Remember the saying,If you love something you set it free.If it comes back to you then it was meant to be.

Lets assume she gave up doing a Shot at Love 2 because of you,years down the line,she may blame you for stopping her career.

This way also,because of your new found fame,you meet more girls and you have more choices.

About the way she treated you,someone up there will take care of that.

If you guys are meant to be together,you will end up back together.

Ciao!
Anonymous said…
I am going to tell you what a lot of people see in Bobby.He is cute,caring,sensitive, and honest.

The problem is he won the Shot at Love with Tila but there wasn`t anything in the glass.Not only was the glass empty but they took the glass away.

What they are doing now is filling up the same glass and passing it to someone else but the rightful owner of that filled glass is Bobby.He never released the glass.

I dont believe it is all Tilas fault because you have managers and producers telling you what to do.But remember Tila these people dont really care about you,they are just taking advantage of you because your show was a hit.You decided to go with them because this is where the visible power is.

That oneguy you left to go do the show is really the one with all the powers.This is invisible power,karma power.

Bobby is the rightful owner of that filled glass that they are passing around.He went through so much stuff to get that glass.It belongs to him.

That is what a lot of people see and they want to make it better.We feel for him.We want the best for him.He radiates positive energy.

My advice for Tila,It is never too late to make ammends.You dont want your unfortunate life events tied to this one guy.

Get the glass back,fill it up and give it back to the rightful owner.Put something really meaningful at the end of that glass.
Anonymous said…
What I know for sure is that is that Bobby and Tila fell in love with each other or they should both be given academy award nominations.

To the anonymous above,I agree with your comments but my issue is this,even after the horrible and terrible way Tila treated and rejected Bobby,Tila went on Extra TV and claimed Bobby broke up with her when in fact she was the one that really broke up with him by telling him she was too busy.

How much more can one guy take?By lieing about the break up,you used him further Tila and you kept taking him down.

Why? DO YOU WANT TO KILL HIM? OR YOU WANT HIM TO KILL HIMSELF?.Remember he has a family that loves him.You took so much from this guy that when it was time to give back a little to someone you took everything from, you run and become too busy.You never really gave him anything just empty promises about your futhur together.You called him only 3x in 4months and he never got your phone number.

What was Bobbys only crime? Falling in love with you.He has paid so much for this.

Why would you treat him like this?Because he is an unknown actor,a nobody?or because you think you are more famous than him?That may be so but he sure has a lot of potentials to make it big.

In this our buisness Tila,it is important to treat people the way you would wish to be treated or it will haunt you for life.It will get you at some point.You have placed a curse on your self, because of this you may never be quite famous as you would like.

Another thing I take issue with is, you knew you were calling your boyfriend Bobby(December 27,2007) to break up with him,why did you have your ex-boyfriend Jared Leto there? Couldn`t you have called Bobby when Jared left?Who does that?It is a no,no Tila.

You are selling your self to do things for fame but Bobby does have to do all that.He has already achieved so much.He did not have to give up anything.

Is it too late to make ammends?no but you need to get off your high horse before you make the horses lose their legs and you fall flat.

This is a no-brainer Tila,People expect you to make ammends.You should really be on your knees to this guy.Talk to him in person and apologise and mean it.

At this point nobody trusts you or believes anything you say because you never follow through.You never really give anything back.You just keep taking and taking then with time you run out on them because some great project came along.

My advice for you Tila for a Shot at Love 2,If you pick someone dont give them false hope,dont bother calling them because you are not looking for love.

All that said,as weird as it may sound,Bobby might actually be the one for you.Why do I say that? because of the way you treated him.If you think he is the one then you know what you need to do.
Anonymous said…
I agree with the anonymous comments above.Those are wise comments.

I get the feeling that a lot of great things are going to be coming your way Bobby.

I am really looking forward to your show Bobby.I hope you pick your soul mate,,the lucky girl of your dreams worthy of your love and who will love you back in return.
Anonymous said…
This is how I feel about all these.So lets say Bobby is Tila and Tila is Bobby.

We say it is Bobbys show and Tila is one of the contestants.

After Tila goes through so much stuff emotionally,stressful stuff.He picks Tila.They are in love.They dont see each other in 4 months.He calls her 3x in 4months(could have done better.He puts himself on a pedestal.He only gives her crumbs from his feet.

They are rumors of a secret girlfriend.He makes u-tube videos saying he is in love,yet he never calls or even talks to Tila.

He knows he is doing a Shot at Love 2 way ahead of time but just to make sure fans watch till the end,he hangs in there and uses Tila till a Shot at Love 1 reunion airs then he pulls the plug.

The day he tells her it is over,because he is so insensitive and self-centered,he has one of his ex-girlfriends he has such a history with around as he tells her he is busy.

He then goes on MTV Masquerade ball parade and lies that Tila broke up with him.

He also goes on Extra TV,this time a different lie that Tila broke up with him.

How is it sounding Tila?Not so great right?This is exactly how Bobby felt.Nobody deserves this kind of treatment.It is not that you rejected him,it is the way the whole thing was done.

I am going to tell you this Tila,If it was you Bobby treated like this,you will have all of us fighting for you..You need to understand what you did.

Now you see,you owe this guy a life time of apologies and hope that he can forgive you.Have you even bothered to check with him and see how he is doing after all these?Have you even tried now you finished shooting a Shot at Love 2.

There is something for this guy at the end of all these right Tila?There has to be......
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Anonymous said…
You people stop being silly

Don’t Judge people if u don’t really know them

Do you people remember that crazy ugly lesbian Vanessa girl on Tila’s show ?

That fuking drunken lesbian Vamessa wanted to have SEX with Bobby at Tila’s house and Bobby called her .. ” Filthy Animal ”

After Tila’s show , that Filthy Animal tried to have SEX with Bobby again , and he had SEX her

Bobby is a two-faced asshole and he’s FAKE , that’s why Tila rejected him . He's a dumb douche any way !

He said in the interview with Steppin out Magazine that He wasn’t on Tila’s show to look for love but he only wanted to find Fame and to show his stupid face on T.V

Bobby and Vanessa are currently dating now

Vanessa’s recently looking for a cheap apartment to rent so Bobby and her can live together

Vanessa is a stripper … ( and may also be a hooker ) , She strips in front of strangers every night for a living and to make money to support her stupid jobless boyfriend

They both are getting what they need from the relationship . She needs SEX . He needs food and a Free-Room

Bobby didn’t need his own dating show because he’s currently dating Vanessa now

Bobby’s is now being taken by Vanessa , the most aggressive , violent , dangerous , alcoholic stupid woman in the world

Any girl dare to take risk … to mess with her and to take away her man ?

Are you people happy now ?
Anonymous said…
You people stop being silly

Don’t Judge people if u don’t really know them

Do you people remember that crazy ugly lesbian Vanessa girl on Tila’s show ?

That fuking drunken lesbian Vamessa wanted to have SEX with Bobby at Tila’s house and Bobby called her .. ” Filthy Animal ”

After Tila’s show , that Filthy Animal tried to have SEX with Bobby again , and he had SEX with her

Bobby is a two-faced asshole and he’s FAKE , that’s why Tila rejected him . He's a dumb douche any way !

He said in the interview with Steppin out Magazine that He wasn’t on Tila’s show to look for love but he only wanted to find Fame and to show his stupid face on T.V

Bobby and Vanessa are currently dating now

Vanessa’s recently looking for a cheap apartment to rent so Bobby and her can live together

Vanessa is a stripper … ( and may also be a hooker ) , She strips in front of strangers every night for a living and to make money to support her stupid jobless boyfriend

They both are getting what they need from the relationship . She needs SEX . He needs food and a Free-Room

Bobby didn’t need his own dating show because he’s currently dating Vanessa now

Bobby’s is now being taken by Vanessa , the most aggressive , violent , dangerous , alcoholic stupid woman in the world

Any girl dare to take risk … to mess with her and to take away her man ?

Are you people happy now ?
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above,BOBBY IS NOT DATING VANESSA.I think you are jealous.

BOBBY IS NOT DATING VANESSA.STOP LIEING.Did Bobby tell you he was dating vanessa or Vanessa tell you she is dating Bobby.Please get your stories right.Where is it online?Bobby has too much class for this crap.Be careful of your sources.Maybe the person thet told you that story does not want you and Bobby back together.


Does Tila have a secret Boyfriend?There are stories and pictures circulating Tila has has a secret swedish boyfriend for a year.She was also dating Jared Leto and this secret Boyfriend while she was with Bobby.Should I believe this?

Lets be honest here.There are pictures of Tila with different men all the time.Tila knows what she did wrong and knows what to do.

I have read all your negetive comments about Bobby like saying he is dumb,mamasboy,emptyheaaded,dating Vanessa,douche bag etc

But dont forget Tila has a lot more negetive issues that I dont care about going into.

If Bobby is able to bypass all Tilas faults and imperfections,why cant Tila?

Everyone has good and bad stuff about them so lets not even go there.

Tila you are a very smart woman.We know why you and Bobby broke up.You did not reject Bobby because of Vanessa.He is not two-faced.

You still need to go back to Bobby and clear the air.If you are hearing rumors that he is dating vanessa,then this is a good time to clear the air with this guy.Ask him if he is dating Vanessa?Free your self of Bobby.This is like a curse you need to tackle,for your future.You dont want this curse following you for life.You rejected him in a really bad way, that is what everyone is frowning at.

Be big enough Tila.Check up on Bobby.Talk to him.You dont have anything to lose but more to gain.By making sure he is okay,you have done your part.Apologise and ask for forgiveness then move on with your life.
Anonymous said…
LOL ... I am not lying

... but it's TRUE ...

Surprised , huh ? ... LOL

" Where is it online ? " <--- LOL ... you can't find it online

Tila knew that long time ago

why don't you go find them and ask them ,
they will tell you the truth
Anonymous said…
of course ... I have proof emails/messages
but I can't give out my log-on password to anyone
Anonymous said…
No you dont have any proof emails/messages.

Well I found him and asked him.

I checked it out directly.

I am 200% certain Bobby is not dating Vanessa.

THE COAST IS CLEAR.

I guess he can still have his own show and pick his soul mate.
Anonymous said…
LOL at the Anonymous above
Are you bobby's mom ? hahaha ...
you can not believe the TRUTH ... LOL ...
of course ... your son's lying to you
ok ... uhmm ... what can I do to make you believe me ?
let me think ...
Anonymous said…
If you want to know the TRUTH
ask Vanessa or Tila , don't ask your son
Anonymous said…
:)

are you still shocked ? ... MOM ?
Anonymous said…
No I am not Bobbys mom,he is my close friend.

He is not lying.What would he gain by lying?Lets think about this,who has more to gain from all these Bobby or Tila?Bobby has nothing to gain by lying.He cant stand Vanessa.

Vanessa is a crazy lunatic you know.She is a nut head.Why would any normal person want to be with Vanessa or even believe what she says?I am surprised Tila is listening to Vanessa.

Anyway Bobby is hosting MTV Spring break in Cancun(March 21,22,23).

His Show is currently in the works.

A Shot at Love 1 DVD comes out in April.
Anonymous said…
LOL ...
you're only his friend , why should he tell you the TRUTH ?
you know nothing about them , then just shut the F up , ok ?

The TRUTH is Bobby and Vanessa are having a relationship
Tila knew that long time ago and she didn't give a damn
lol ...
Anonymous said…
Tila told me ... " he's stupid any way " ... lol
Anonymous said…
No,you shut the F up.You are the one making up all these bogus ridiculous lies.Nobody believes you Tila.Everyword you say is a lie.You are unbelieveable.You have never told the truth before,why should it be different now.

Who in their right mind would have time to make up all these crazy lies and actually expect people to believe them,except you of course.Have you read your lies?


The lies sound so much like you.The way you talk about Vanessa,It is disgusting.I think you have the hots for her Tila.You have lied through out this whole thing,and still lieing.You will never change.

Yes,I am only his friend.Who are you?I know you are Tila.If you are not Tila then who are you?Dont bother telling me because everything that comes out of you is a lie.

Be the way you are Tila.I came expecting nothing from you.I got exactly what I expected.We know you so well.I was not expecting anything but lies.You did not dissapoint.Hold on to your lies and keep spreading them while I hold on to my truth.

You will get whats coming to you.
Anonymous said…
who are you talking to ? stupid ! .. lol
are you calling me Tila ? ... lol ...
I am not Tila , stupid ... hahaha
Tila is in Florida , Miami right now ,
she's hosting a spring break party over there ,
she doesn't have the time to go on the internet
may be this website owner can verify who I am by checking my IP address
I am from Northern California , I am not from Hollywood , stupid ... lol
Anonymous said…
If you want to see the proof too bad ,
beg me , talk nice to me ... lol
stupid axhole
Anonymous said…
Tila,You should be so greatful Bobby came into your life.You should consider yourself lucky to have met Bobby.


Nobody thought much of you until Bobby came into you life.You were just somebody on my space.

You became intresting with Bobby.

People actually tried liking you because of Bobby.You sounded honest for once because of Bobby.

You think you have it all figured out.We had seen everthing you had to offer until Bobby came into your life.There was nothing else to see.Everthing was on-line.Bobby made you fresh.

At some point you will make ammends.Just make sure it is not too late.

It now makes sense to everbody why you did not pick Dani.You felt Bobby was somebody you could use and take advantage of and nobody will care. But everybody cares and its all coming around.
Anonymous said…
If you are really Bobby's mom , give me your email address , I will send you all the proofs

but you said you're only his friend ? ( internet friend ? ... lol ) ... then just shut the fuk up and mind your own business

again , I am not Tila , stupid !
Anonymous said…
NO E-MAIL ADDRESSES FOR YOU MISS TILA.

First of all,if I was Bobby`s mom,why would I send you my e-mail address?

Nobody trusts you Tila.Everyone knows you are a liar.You will probably make up some fake e-mail address,and send people fake mails.

WE DONT CARE FOR YOUR PROOF OR STORY.WE ARE NOT INTERESTED.NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU TILA.

If I was a close friend of Bobbys,then you need to shut the
F up and go back to my space.Bobby is not yours anymore.
Anonymous said…
Yeah,tell her like it is.

Dude, MTV spring break in Cancun?That is hot.A bunch of us just bought our tickets and will see you there.

When is your new show and movie coming out?
Anonymous said…
Did you mention internet friend Tila?

Lets explore that.Tila is on Bobbys my space,Bobbys fan site,a shot at love with Bobbys site leaving fake comments all the time.

These are all Tilas names- love connection,Happy face,Amandaberge,Mikey,
Katieprincess.
Anonymous said…
You want me to shut the F up and mind my buisness Tila? No way Tila.

For years and years, you have forced your self on our faces all the time.You are all over the internet.Too much Tila everywhere.

Now when it is time to hear the truth,you want us to mind our buisness.No way Tila,it is not happening.

Tell me Tila,What was it you were offering Bobby?.What do you have for that special someone that is not on the internet?Nothing.

Tila,You are very controlling,jealous,self-centered,insensitive, and manipulative.You are trying to compete with Bobby(yet he has never been to your my space site).

Remember that song Tila by the very beautiful and talented Alicia
Keys-What goes around comes around,what goes up must come down.You will come down at some point.
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above,I agree with you.The Title of song is KARMA by Alicia Keys.
Anonymous said…
So now what Tila,after a Shot at Love 3,what are you going to do?

I am going to make some predictions.You can get away with a Shot at Love 2 but by the 3rd series of Shot at Love,the public would have caught up with how fake the show is.The ratings will go down and thats it for you.This is your peak.

I guess you will have to go back to your lonely life on my space.
Anonymous said…
Tila, the only person you should be sending anything to is Bobby.

He is the only person that ever really cared about you.

He is the one you should apologise to and hopes he can forgive you.You then move on with your lonely life.

If you put someone through so much humiliation,pain and hurt and not blink an eye,you should be able to go through the same amount of humiliation,pain and hurt.
Anonymous said…
hey heres a question? do any of you even know Bobby or Tila? most likely not. so honetsly, calm down. do you really have nothing better to do than beak people you dont know? come on now..
Anonymous said…
hey heres a question? do any of you even know Bobby or Tila? most likely not. so honetsly, calm down. do you really have nothing better to do than beak people you dont know? come on now..
Anonymous said…
hey heres a question? do any of you even know Bobby or Tila? most likely not. so honetsly, calm down. do you really have nothing better to do than beak people you dont know? come on now..
Anonymous said…
Yes,we know Bobby very well.

We dont know Tila.You sound like Tila.

You are supposed to press the publish button once not 3x Tila.
Anonymous said…
Tila Tequilas my space name is
hgihreiutgjjfirhg.

This is the most current name she is using in Bobbys my space,Bobby banhart fansite and a shot at love with Bobby to leave fake comments.

Her other my space names are Love connection,Happyface,Amandaberge,
Katieprincess,Mikey.
Anonymous said…
Was on one of Vanessa Romanelli`s(from a Shot at Love 1)my space page(dont know her personally),and there were pictures of Tila Tequila all over her page so I am assuming there are friends.

Vanessa news:She is one of the celebrities on MTV Spring break in Cancun in South padre island with the celebrity party cruise.

Bobby hosting MTV Spring break in
Cancun,South Padre island in Loues backyard.
mizzloca31 said…
Hey Bobby I hope you find true love you deserve it.Que chulo tu eres? You a fine papicito. I wish I was your mamicita.We be like Romeo and Juliet. I would never let you go like Tila she was stupid. She was confused anyway. You didn't need her any way. You smart,sexy and intelligent. I have lots of love for you email me mizzloca31@bellsouth.net Any woman would die for a man like you.
Anonymous said…
TO ALL THE ANONYMOUS ABOVE,BOBBY BANHART IS DATING VANESSA ROMANELLI(FROM A SHOT AT LOVE 1).

BOBBY BANHART AND VANESSA ROMANELLI(THE BISEXUAL ALCOHOLIC THAT ALMOST RAPED HIM ON TILA`S SHOW)ARE A COUPLE.

Infact Bobby cheated on Tila with vanessa right immediately after Tila`s show that was why Tila rejected him.

First of all,Bobby says he was on Tila`s show to put fire to his acting career.

Now he is dating Vanessa,and they are moving in together in Newyork.

Infact,they are both going away to Cancun Mexico this weekend as we speak,where Bobby is hosting MTV spring break.

It is not looking good Bobby.
You fooled us.You are two-faced,very weak,stupid and dumb.

So what if Vanessa wanted to fuck you,couldn`t you have no?

What if Tila suddenly started dating your friend Ryan(from a Shot at love 1)?Does it sound right?Did you think about how wrong it is dating Vanessa?Where is your brain Bobby?
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above that commented Bobby Banhart and Vanessa Romanelli(from a Shot at love 1)are a couple,I agree with you.

I was Shocked when I heard it.All this while,we thought Tila wronged you Bobby but you are a useless scum bag.

Of all the 50,000 my space women(fake numbers)that want to marry you,why Vanessa?the crazy alcoholic,most aggressive,violent,dangerous stupid woman in the world that almost raped you.Are you insane Bobby ?

The whole story Bobby presented to us sounded too good to be true.

Stupid false stories about women cheating on him,meanwhile he is the one that cheated on Tila with Vanessa Romanelli right after the show.

Friends are saying that Vanessa trying to rape Bobby on Tila`s show was such a turn on for him,he could hardly wait till the show was over to fuck her.
Anonymous said…
Now the story is out that Bobby Banhart and Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1) are a couple,Tila is better of without him.

He is not worth it Tila.

Bobby has a character defect,it shows he is really weak,dumb and did a very stupid thing.

I dont get it bobby,you know you dont have anything to offer anybody,yet you cheat on Tila with Vanessa.It is really dumb.

Bobby was acting the whole time.What a disgrace and a let down.
Anonymous said…
Does anyone know how Domenico Nesci`s show That`s Amore is doing in ratings?

That`s Amore is just a poor version of a Shot at Love 1.

I am really looking forward to a Shot at Love 2 with Tila Tequila.
This time Tila,I hope you chose wisely.Bobby was a poor choice.

Tila,You should have chosen Ryan or Dani.At least Dani had a job and Ryan came from a rich family.
They had something to offer you.

Bobby is jobless,very weak,dumb,average looking,very poor,dumb douche,mama`s boy,vanessa`s boy,fucking a filty whore,very jealous and controlling man.

The only thing we thought Bobby had that was real, was being honest but that was an act.

Bobby and Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1)have been fucking since after Tila`s show ended.You really fooled us Bobby.
Anonymous said…
Hi every body , this is Brandi

This is the truth. Bobby Banhart and Vanessa Romanelli are Dating and moving in Together.

The couple have been dating since a Shot at love 1 finished Shooting.

This weekend the couple are flying over to cancun where Bobby is shooting MTV spring break
Anonymous said…
Hi everyone , this is Brandi

This is the truth.Bobby Banhart and Vanessa Romanelli are Dating and moving in Together.

The couple have been dating since a Shot at love 1 finished Shooting.

This weekend the couple are flying over to cancun where Bobby is shooting MTV spring break
Anonymous said…
Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1) and Bobby banhart are a couple.

It has been confirmed !

The couple have been dating since a Shot at love 1 finished shooting
Anonymous said…
I was very mad when I found out Bobby and Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1) are a couple.Infact they have been seeing each other since Tila`s show ended.

Why?because of wasted time and energy believing Bobby was genuine and Tila was wrong.

Who else would go behind closed doors and fuck Vanessa Romanelli except Bobby Banhart.

You are a low class scum bag.You should be ashamed.It says a lot for the kind of person you are.

None of those guys from a Shot at love 1,(not Ryan,not Steven,not Domenico )would touch Vanessa because she is crazy and insane except Bobby.

Even if Vanessa held a gun to your head Bobby,you should never have gone so low.
Anonymous said…
My comment is to Tila and Tila`s friends,you knew Bobby and Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1)were having sex way back,why did you not let everyone know the real truth?

This is a guy that made Tila look so bad.Believe me,if it was Tila that did this to Bobby,he would be giving an interview the next day,crying like a baby,just to destroy Tila`s career.

I think the reason why he was keeping the relationship with Vanessa Romanelli a secret is because he did not want the attention he was getting from women from dating Tila Tequila to disappear.He is still riding on Tila`s fame.

I say to Tila and Tila`s friends,pull the carpet from under Bobby`s feet.Let the world know what a weak,weak, dumb fool he is.

Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1) used to be 100% lesbian,now she is Bisexual,thanks to Bobby Banhart.
Anonymous said…
to the Anonymous above :

Are you the Anonymous that posted angry comments above about Tila and thought that it was Tila who posted the truth about Bobby and Vanessa and you called her a liar ?

To remind you one more time , I am the one who posted that information above , and I say one more time , I am not Tila .

If you don't believe me , give me your email , I will send you my home phone number

So ... you already investigated and found out the Truth about Bobby and Vanessa , you believed me now , huh ?
Anonymous said…
To the anonymous above that was laying all the blame on Tila,I guess Bobby fooled you too.You must be sorry now.

I dont understand why Tila invited Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1)to her Newyear Masquerade ball parade when she knew she was fucking Bobby Banhart.

Come to think of it Tila,you are so better of without Bobby.Anybody is better than Bobby at this point.

Bobby is so poor Tila,you would have had to support him for the rest of your life.If the relationship had progressed,you would have needed a serious pre-nuptial aggrement.

Dumb Bobby that did a stupid thing.
Anonymous said…
MY RESPONSE WHEN I FOUND OUT BOBBY BANHART AND VANESSA ROMANELLI WERE DATING?

All I remember from a Shot at Love 1 is Bobby Banhart`s mom telling Tila to pick my son because he is cute.She forgot to tell Tila my son is a very very weak man,girly man,a woman in man`s body,and a very needy man.

Girl,you deserve a real man.
Anonymous said…
lol ... to the Anoymous comment above

When Bobby's mom arrived in Tila's big house on a large estate in Hollywood Hill , LA , she's was very IMPRESSED and wanted Tila to pick her son ... lol ...
Anonymous said…
whats really going on with bobby wtf.hes fine an im glad he dumped her nasty ass.
Anonymous said…
The anonymous above I think is Bobby.

Maybe he is doing this to get back at Tila.

WELL IT`S OVER.Bobby is fucking crazy Vanessa Romanelli(Shot at Love 1).We shall see how long the relationship will last.

Hopefully Tila finds someone more her match on a Shot at Love 2.
Anonymous said…
There are supposed to be 3 pictures on-line of Bobby Banhart and Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1),nude pictures of Bobby and Vanessa on a beach in Cancun,Mexico(march 22,2008),Bobby and Vanessa apartment hunting in Newyork(feb 16,2008),Bobby and Vanessa making out at a night club in Newyork(november 18,2007).This is the time he was supposed to be dating Tila Tequila.He cheated on Tila.
Please post links if anyone finds it.

Cold hearted unforgiving weak dumb Bobby determined to get back at Tila,I hope you are happy now.

To the anonymous above,Bobby Banharts words are not valid,remember he called Vanessa Romanelli(shot at love 1)a filty whore on national TV,the next minute he was fucking her.

Bobby says,I dumped her nasty ass,for what Bobby?for what?Vanessa?Fucking crazy Vanessa is not something you should be proud of Bobby.Anyone could have done that.You have it all twisted.You are just weak and stupid.You could have fucked someone else.

WEAK BOBBY BANHART FUCKING CRAZY VANESSA ROMANELLI(SHOT AT LOVE 1).
Anonymous said…
to the anonymous above ,

no , bobby did not call vanessa a filthy whore

he called her : .. " FILTHY ANIMAL "

Tila's very lucky for not being with Bobby and got rid of him soon

Bobby has nothing to offer a girl ,

he's very weak , dumb , no job , no college degree , no home , no money , no brain , no soul , heartless , fake , average looking , walking bow-legged , lying , dishonest , unfaithful , confusing and promiscuous
Anonymous said…
Wow! Whoever posted the above 2 messages sounds like their carrying personal baggages against Bobby. Even if what you say is true then let them go on with their lives. Sounds like you have a personal issue with Bobby to write all those hateful words. I suggest calming down coz only your health will suffer if you continue to carry all those hateful feelings. Life is too short :)
Alexandraa said…
Stop hating on Bobby !
He seems like the sweetest person in the world!
I'm very sad that they are not togheter . They were sooo cute !
the perfect couple to me.

I'm just wondering , why would Tila starts so quickly a season 2 ?
Anonymous said…
stupid question !

because she didn't want to miss the chance
MTV would give that chance to another bi-sexual candidate

Bobby's been fucking Vanessa , why can't Tila have another dating show ?
Anonymous said…
hahaha ...

Vanessa has had a 1 year old baby boy
Bobby would be a great babysitter
LOL ...
Anonymous said…
lol ..

I wonder if Vanessa knew who is her baby's father
because she was drunk all the time
Anonymous said…
I agree with the anonymous way above who commented,whoever posted the above 2 messages sounds like their carrying personal baggages against Bobby.Maybe he loves Vanessa.I agree your health can suffer from this.Enough of the hateful words.
Anonymous said…
what the fuck !

who the fuck loves that stupid ugly bitch vanessa ?
everybody hates that filthy animal tranny vanny
not even Domenico wants to touch her

she slapped Dani on the face , she slaped Domenico on the face ,
she grabbed Brandi hair and fighting with Brandi on the floor
she's always drunk and walking around naked in Tila's house

she rubbed her naked sagging hairy ass on the glass door and sexually assaulted Bobby and he called her " a filthy animal "

She lied to Tila about Brandi . She admitted on the reunion show that she's a lying bitch and she lied the whole time

she's a stripper and a whore .
I saw her naked picture in bed together with a man and a woman

she's already had a child . I really feel sorry for her son to have a mother like that
Anonymous said…
Bobby fucked vanessa because she wanted to fuck him on national television that made him proud

Why did he go on EXTRA-TV and complained that Tila dumped him ?

Why did he go on the Magazine Interview and complained that Tila didn't love him ?

what a stupid jerk !
Anonymous said…
But when did Bobby say that he was dating Vanessa?

I thought he can't stand her.

Some people say that he was dating Vanessa after filming a shot at love , but Tila never said the reason that they broke up was cheating.
Anonymous said…
I enjoyed watching Tila Tequila and Ryan Stout host MTV SPRING BREAK fantasy couple.

I adore Ryan Stout.He is so cute.

I agree with the anonymous above,your health can suffer from all these hateful comments.Enough of the hateful words.

Whatever that happened is between Tila and Bobby.it is really nobody elses buisness.
Anonymous said…
Ryan Stout is super cute.He hosted a Shot at Love 1,More amore,I hope he hosts a Shot at love 2.He is like a judge.

I know Bobby and Ryan creighton are like brothers,best friends.I wonder if Bobby and Ryan will have a TV Show together?

I agree with the anonymous above,all this comments about Bobby ,Vanessa and Tila is not our Buisness.It is between them.
Anonymous said…
WHO EVER THAT SAID THEY WERE PICTURES ON-LINE OF BOBBY AND VANESSA LIED.THEY ARE NO PICTURES ON-LINE.STOP SPREADING LIES.

I agree with the anonymous above,whatever that happened is between Bobby,Tila and Vanessa.It is none of our buisness.

I like Ryan Stout also.He can judge me anytime.
Anonymous said…
I agree with the anonymous above,Bobby has never said he was dating Vanessa and Tila has never said the reason for the break up was cheating.

It is between Bobby and Tila .It is none of our buisness.
Anonymous said…
for your information ,

bobby said on his personal myspace that he's dating vanessa
Everybody knew that , except you

he's never told you that because you are a fucking nobody
Anonymous said…
ok,so if you say Bobby is dating Vanessa and he posted it on his personal my space then it is confirmed.

He does not have to tell anyone.

I thought Bobby and Tila made a cute couple.
Anonymous said…
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Anonymous said…
Bobby is a weak and dumb immature kid
Tila needs a REAL MAN to take care of her and protect her
Anonymous said…
My only concern with Bobby at this point is that he was unfaithful when he was with Tila.What if Bobby is feeling neglected or lonely,does he start cheating?
He does not have to tell anyone what he is doing.
Anonymous said…
But Bobby said on the show that he didn't feel that for Vanessa ,that way.

What did he actually say on his personal myspace?

I'm from Holland and I just figure out that Bobby&Vanessa are dating.
But I thought he can't stand her.
I think it's trange.
Anonymous said…
That whole show had to be rigged cause they were auditioning for season 2 in boston @ a nightclub in like nov. no lie....... Tila Tequila is just a girl from myspace who wants a shot @ fame through reality TV...... Talk about a poser giving reality shows a bad name
Anonymous said…
Ah you guys; before her first show even finished airing, there was press about her "real" boyfriend and the fact that a second "Shot At Love" was planned. She never had any intention of being with Bobby. It's caled ACTING! Get a life!
Anonymous said…
she should be nominated
for the 2008 Oscar award
... for best actress
Anonymous said…
The real entity that everyone should be mad at is VH1 for making fools out of ALL of us by truly tricking us into believing the intentions were true. Come on....fool me once shame on you, fool me twice....shame on us.

DO NOT WATCH THE SECOND SEASON!!!! It's bad enough they are airing Flavor of Love 3! Noone should be wasting their time on this nonsense. Tila is a straight up celebrity fame/money whore.

I feel for Bobby and my heart goes out to the poor guy. I hope he really makes it back on his feet and learns from this hurtful lesson. Bitches are naturally flaky anyways, when you add money and fame, Im surprised he even received 1 phone call after the show.
Anonymous said…
that idiot Johnny above , do you know Bobby personally ?

If you don't know nothing about him , then just shut up

Bobby and Vanessa have been dating since the show ended

Tila is the victim here

stop the hatred against the victim
Anonymous said…
as if tila did that. like are you kidding me. she is so fake. ive never seen someone be so fake in my life wowwww.
Anonymous said…
This loser guy Bobby is trying to hard to become famous
He's using a poor little lady to start his hopeless acting career

Bobby's working on his own show ... MY ASS !!!

Nobody went to cancun to watch his springbreak show

MTV didn't even put his stupid show on their website nor on TV

Bobby worked at a pizza shop
and he washed dishes at Deloia's restaurant

And now ... he's unemployed !!!
Anonymous said…
Dude you hung your ass out there and Tila is just trying to get famous. Did u see Surviving Nugent? Look it up if u haven't. Yes she's hot but like Nugent said "If sex is your currency, your a rich bitch"
Anonymous said…
Ok pretty sure it doesnt matter who broke up with who. What does matter is everyone that is involved in any of these shows, is only involved because of the hefty sums of cash. Lets take a look at it. All of these washed out celebs so depressed because all they want to do is find "real love." Last time I checked, real love didnt come from exploiting yourself on a reality show over and over again. Like Flavor of Love 1,2, and 3. And maybe Rock of Love 1 and 2. Maybe Im the only one that has noticed, but Flavor Flav's career has pretty much been in the shitter for quite some time and now all of a sudden he has an album out. So does Bret Michaels. And Tila Tequila... who the hell really heard of her before all of this. Im sure I've probably seen her before and briefly thought, id like to tap that before seeing something shiny and instantly turning my attention away from her. The point of my rant is that none of this is real. If MTV paid me an assload of money and promised me the recognition everywhere I went that Bobby is getting, I might pretend to fall in love with some scantily clad broad as well.
Anonymous said…
the Anonymous above me is a stupid d!ckhead

If Bobby got paid by MTV to act on the show ,

so why did he tell the INTERVIEWER that the show is fake and he warned the other guys from the next show ... to "keep the wall" and stay away from Tila ?

He also told his friends to boycott MTV's " A Shot At Love 2 With Tila Tequila " show

Why did MTV pay him the money to boycott their show ?

now answer my question , you stupid retard
Anonymous said…
On A Shot At Love 2 , episode 1

That Lili girl came up to Tila and began giving psychic therapy for Tila

Lili held Tila's hand and looked into her eyes and asked Tila about her past

... then Lili said .. " Bobby hurt you , he couldn't handle your job " ... and she made Tila cried

I do believe Tila's feeling really hurt and sad

watch A Shot At Love 2 on youtube :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KInUXDy3Eos&feature=related

Lili's giving Tila psychic therapy
Unknown said…
ok tila does not love bobby. she is dating jared leto. it comes out of her own mouth. watch this video on tmz:
http://www.tmz.com/2006/11/27/tila-tequila-shot-down-rockstar-saves-the-day/
Anonymous said…
hey reese ,
are you stupid and retarded ?

that video clip was made in the year of 2006

hello !!! this is the year 2008
Anonymous said…
Brandi Ryan ( from A Shot At Love 1 with Tila )

has been arrested for possession of a controlled substance

and possession of drug paraphernalia

and for trying to hide a meth pipe... in her crotch !!!

http://www.tmz.com/2008/05/09/girl-on-girl-on-drugs/

Brandi's at the County Jail in Orange County now
Anonymous said…
It is what it is , MTV is there to make money and Tila wants fame and MTV give it to her , Bobby was a victim of a bad show with a fake Tila ...

Michael Jensen
vikingwords@hotmail.com
Anonymous said…
Tila ran away from home when she was 16 years old

she started her life with only $300 dollars in her pocket

she's now Rich and Famous but she's still thinking and remembering her Parents

she came back home and bought her parents a big house and also gave them a lot of money

Tila is a wild child , she lived and grew up alone on the street

and she built up her Success and Wealth all by herself with nobody's help

while Bobby's a mama boy and he's still living with his parents

He used the poor little Tila to start his stupid hopeless acting career

and he's now still living off Tila's fame

Tila is TOO GOOD for that useless Faggot Bobby

Bobby has a whole family and "racist gang" helping him and protecting him

While Tila's very lonely , she has to fight alone and struggles to confront the enemy's attack all by herself

that's why I am always on Tila's side

and I will do whatever I can to help and support her

even though she doesn't know who I am ... and I don't even know her
Anonymous said…
Hey Bobby.

First I thought it was real what Tila said about it all, and I was like "?What! Thats not true. Bobby was so relaxing and really looked in love in A Shot At Love!" And you were, really. Wow, I got so touched about your words, when I look at you, I think "Just a typical guy" But you actually have a heart! No offense, I always liked you. I agree that love is not about looks or fame or money. Its about being in love. You are for real!

xoxoxoxoxo Cestine...
I wish you could be in TV so I could hear your voice and see you again.. *Blush*
Anonymous said…
hey you , Cestine
are you related to Bobby ?
stop defending that loser guy
Bobby is a scum-bag faggot

Bobby got a heart ? oh really ?

Bobby's got a girlfriend before he entered Tila's show

His girlfriend , Brooke , helped him fill out the application for him so he could get in Tila's show

After the show's over , he never talked to Brooke again and completely ignored her

He dumped his girlfriend because he thought that he had become a big star now

His ex-girfriend complained that he borrowed money from her but never paid her back

Bobby used to live with his mom and he worked in a pizza shop and he washed dishes at Deloia's restaurant

After he got lucky and won Tila's key , he moved out of his mom's house and moved in to live together with a girl .

This girl , Bobby's formal room-mate , complained that : ...

" I actually lived with Bobby, and let me tell you that ... he's fake . We were really cool while we were roommates , but as soon as I moved out , I can’t get in touch with him & he still owes me over $1000 for past bills he had me put in my name . He never dated Tila, never even slept with her . They never dated , so they never had to “ break up ” ... Sorry , fans ... but Bobbo is FAKE . Not to mention , he's an ass "
Anonymous said…
Bobby is a low life dickhead

He took advantage of women and used them
to step up the ladder of fame and to make a living
Anonymous said…
I am actually a close friend of Tila and she said that Bobby was FAKE and he DID break it off

After the reunion show , Tila even invited him to go with her after the show ended

... but he DID NOT want to be with her because he got the “party scene” going with girls

… and he was too busy celebrating victory

Tila also told The Associated Press in a recent interview that :

” I felt like Bobby was starting to get caught up more in the Hollywood world , - Tila said - , Because when we were talking , he was just talking about meeting with agents and getting his own reality show , and meeting with managers ”

” Of course I was happy for him , but at the same time I thought that was really weird . Because if that’s what you were doing , then why didn’t you mention that while we were shooting ? It was just odd to me . Unfortunately it didn’t work out ”

” the media also makes it hard on us . The media says something about him , and he retaliates , and I’m like .. ” That’s not how it was ” . And it ends up being , like , unfortunate . ”

Tila Tequila blames the media and her paramour’s interest in self-promotion for her breakup , and says she was much more guarded during her second “Shot at Love” on MTV

( Source : Associated Press , Entertainment Weekly , BuddyTV )

Bobby even said in the interview with Steppin-Out Magazine that he only wanted to be on Tila’s show just because he only wanted to be on TV

What would you do if you were in Tila’s position ?

You would be very hurt , mad , confused and pissed off , too !

TILA TOLD ME … THERE WILL NOT BE … ” a shot at love 3 ”

SHE WILL NOT WASTE HER TIME TO DO ANY MORE REALITY SHOW

HER GOAL IS NOW … TO FOCUS ON CHARITY’S MISSION

AND TO HELP CHANGING THE WORLD FOR THE BETTER
Anonymous said…
LoL who caresss this shit!
tv shows are pure lie
and that tila she's a bitch and dani was to much for her!
she told her i lovE YOU COME ON SHE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT LOVE MEANS!
she's too old and doesnt know haha XD
how pathetic, she has to live and see what love means!

she thinks money and looks are everything...and everyone wants to fuck her JUST BECAUSE OF THAT but not because she's a nice and caring person SHE'S SHIT
Anonymous said…
that's right, on the final eposide she told dani i love you, and also to bobby, that does not make any sense, you CANT love two people at the same time...she does not know what love is